So on my recent visit back to London, I was able to connect in person for the first time with my YouTube friend Love Fleurette! Her channel is epic, I've linked it below. We filmed this collab vid right around the corner from Shoreditch High Street and Box Park in the lovely AirBNB I stayed in while visiting my favorite city. In this video we discuss stereotypes of dating British/ English men. It is candid hilarity. Press play!
On her channel we get into a pretty heated topic on American men and their "habits" let's say. It's a good one. Take a hop-skip over to her channel to join the rest of the conversation.
*Love Fluerette - https://www.youtube.com/user/KingdomF...
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Never say British. The girl or right ain’t correct at all and she’s English. Never say to a Scot Irish English or a Welsh u are British .. it insults our culture we are from Britain and within the union of Britain we are from the country England or northern island extra.. I get insulted if they say oh u British I will always correct them.. it will be like me going to Mexico and saying to a Mexican or Canadian oh u American they will say yes we are from the continent American but from the country USA Mexico.. it’s the same
，I'm from china and want to know something about the dating culture in the west.I heard the majority of western people have sex before commitment,is that true?A british white girl told me they usually have sex on the fourth or fifth date and then they become loves.......and many couples in london were friends with benifits before they commit with each other.She told me of that,I don't know if it's true?
I have been trying to find a way to live in England for a while and I found I just cant unless Im rich or marry a british man. I'm not trying to marry someone to go to England. Although I am an American, I would have to be a doctor or have exceptional talent to get a work visa to live and work in England. It is not easy migrating there at all. I would go and stay there for 6 months if I had a remote job that allows me to travel all over the world.
You're British if you were born in England, Scotland or Wales. A Scotsman, for example, is both British and Scottish...it does NOT matter if you're black or white (6 mins 54 secs). A black guy born in England is both British and English.
I lived in LA for two years, my ex was Afro Cuban. I had so many fights with Black Americans, it was really amusing. Also, back in UK I have had Black, Asian, Chinese Girlfriends. I don't see a colour, I see a human being, for me smile, laughter are more important. Secondly ladies, I'm English and British, I have French, Italian, Norse and Celtic blood. If you are born in England you are English and British then you have your cultural background. Ultimately we are all sums of our own being, who we are as a person, individual is everything. Thank you for your time ladies.
+Marley Barley Yes, Asian as in a Indian Girlfriend. Thank you for the reply. It is nice to see people who are not caught up in a person's colour, future or religion. We are all unique in our own little way, we just have to take the time to find out about one and other.
English doesn't just mean white, posh and from London! Just an observation, as so many Americans seem to think that's exactly what England is. There's a whole country outside London, and other countries outside England. Come to North West England!!!
Just this morning, I met a very nice british guy, but he's black british and I'm African-american. I found this video bc I was online trying to find out info on black british guys (in case there are differences from the general info about british men). Let's just say, I couldn't find anything!! Would you be willing to share some insight? Perhaps, the next video with you and Love Fleurette could comment on it. (crossing my fingers)
Miss America you have no clue about black Britain . oh please did you stay in knights bridge or Sloane square. you are attractive but forget your comparing. LOL i cant believe this the lady hasn't even been to Black clubs ,raves or socialisation black folk MEN be out all the while
As a Black Britain who parents came here over 50 years. I am fotunate and established .i take my pride in such places you are yet to find . Ambition and blessings sit with done with stremght and independence . My vocation allows me to work with those i enjoy. In top notch facilities. health and strenght . Its a wonderful day here in Bucks
Knightsbridge is for handbags. We have alot more culture than you have established hopefully you'll see black Britain soon blessings to ya
What is it with people saying that "London isn't representative of England". To me it's representative of what the rest of England should be. I like living here. I like the diversity. I'd rather be surrounded by people of different races, faiths and backgrounds opposed to the inbred cousin fuckers who haven't moved on from the 50s.
The ratio of men to women here in America is like 1:4. Reason being is that a lot of black men are either in prison married or gay. Guys end up playing the field because women here are extremely competitive with one another and the ratio is so high in favor of the men. Some women come at you harder if they know that you are married here in this country.
I live in the Black Country in the Midlands near Birmingham, so its very much a cultural mixing pot. I prefer a black girl because they are strong women but also very strong on there family. So you have all the love but the strengths that goes with it!
what about the British guys we are not just English lol ,, Welsh , Scottish m Northern Irish ,,:) YES we love to date black women :) mixed race is the way forward ,,,here people dont care who dates who :) im always between NYC and the UK ,,,,lets date lol
you cant judge manners on LONDON as its like NYC ,,,,the rat race try Wales or the Lakes or Scotland huge difference ,,,you girls should try it huge huge difference
Posting here because your other video about reverse culture shock is closed to commenting. As a British born American I can say from a white male perspective that we find black women attractive, oh boy we do. I think that with the stigmas and attitudes here in America, most of us would rather err on the side of caution and stay within their race. I guarantee you that if you have a nice personality and make it known that you are open to biracial relationships you will be busy! I think that's it, we dont get the vibe that the good looking black women sitting at the next table are open to conversation, leading to a phone number, leading to a date later on with a white guy. In fact, hate to say it but the opposite is probably closer to reality based on my experiences. There are probably millions and millions of us who would jump at the chance to date someone like yourself. I hear the locker room talk and it's by far more positive than negative. Good luck and happy hunting! 😎
I hope that you don't mind me adding a comment. I am an American guy. I've watched several of your videos (which are very good by the way). I've lived all over the United States too. My dad was in the military; so, we lived in places like Virginia, Tennessee, Texas, etc. My dad is from the northeast and my mom is from the south. I was actually born in Alabama (although I never actually lived there aside from the two weeks following my birth). I currently live and work in the Silicon Valley (not far from San Francisco). Still, I am politically conservative.
That said: You are an incredible woman and any man in any country would be exceptionally lucky to have you! Why? You're highly intelligent, personable and beautiful. You have a remarkable personality and a contagious smile. In addition, kindness and goodness just pour from your soul.
I think that this is the most important thing in finding love. It isn't the joining of two bodies (although that is obviously a part of it). It is the joining of souls (if that makes sense). The outward appearance is so fleeting. I read a study recently in which men and women were asked questions about what makes someone "beautiful." I was actually surprised that the top answer for men was a woman who is young (between the ages of 19 and 22). What will become of their "love" if it is based upon little more than a short period of that woman's life?
When I was in college, I majored in engineering and political science (weird combo, right?). In the freshmen seminar class for engineering, our professor pointed out the need to figure out whether or not we really liked our major (engineering). Why? He argued that we needed to like our major because it is what we would probably be doing for the next 40 years.
This is why true love can't be based on little more than someone's outer appearance. If a marriage or lasting relationship is going to succeed, it has to be based upon something much deeper than what we look like. Our race, religion, culture, etc. will always be a part of who we are. At the same time, such things are little more than tools that chisel the character of our souls. Consequently, I feel that love has to be based on that soul.
Thank you for sharing so much of your inner thoughts on your channel! Good stuff!
You say Peter that the Black Race is being reduced due to Inter-Racial Dating but....that can not ever happen , my friend. Simple Maths...... The " average " Black AND Asian families have over 4 children so in 7 generations that is 4x4x4x4x4x4x4= OVER 16,000 offspring while the average White or Chinese or Jewish average just over 2 children which is 2x2x2x2x2x2x2 around 130 offspring....16,000 v 130 from just one " average" family. ALSO consider this, my friend as so many Mixed Raced children are being born then 85% of them choose future Black partners so their children are " 3/4" or effectively Black, as well !
It is The White Race that is disappearing ! Their average is 55 while the average Asian age is 24 !!!
Don't know the average Black age but it's a lot younger than 55 ! THEN include all the Black "Half-Siblings".
My best Black friend's Babyfather and his brother have "20 or 21" children alone and being part of a larger family of 5,6,7,8 children is not uncommon in a Black household.
In the 1960's London was 99% White British and now in INNER London only 1-in-10 births in 2016 were to " White/British"...so it's Whites that are very much on their way out which is why so many ( 5 million) have moved to "White" Countries like Australia/New Zealand and Canada..
No, if you are born in England, you are English. If you are born in Scotland you are Scottish, If you are born in Wales, you are Welsh, if you are born in Ireland, you are Irish. Most of the people that live in London, are not Londoners. Londoners are now a minority in London.
Thank you ladies for your observations and taking the time to comment on them. I think Fleurette's observations are quite insightful but not entirely applicable to the whole of Britain. In London maybe, but London is not BRITAIN. You ladies would, or should be chatted up by any self respecting man because you're both beautiful (not exotic! - Britain is no longer in the age of discovery!!). Any man that can't appreciate female beauty is not a true man..read into that what you like!!
Anyway, if you return to this blessed isle, please consider visiting the North of England. I'm sure you'll receive a warm welcome, hospitality and the interest of a whole lot of potential suitors - black and white!
I knew the whole point of the video, was for the woman to date outside their race, thats why i made the point in the first comment. It does matter, what have you sisters got in common with these other races? you should date your own race, animals dont have the same mindset! where they get with different animals! EG: cats with dogs, lion with a zebra, yet were supose to be more intelligent and above the animals.
i wouldnt say it as dating multiple people at the same time, but people can ....””see”” multiple people at the same time ?? which i hope people dont see as like cheating on people because we’re NOT its just different we’re not dating im just seein you. or you can be in the talkin stage with multiple people.
I wanted to know if you could do a show on interracial marriage in London?
i understand from your video that English white men date outside their race but how many of them actually marry those women. Very informative video by the way!
I really enjoyed watching this segment. I think we all suffer from a pov problem. That's why we stereotype each other in general. It's nice to see women who are not the normal portrait of unintelligent (sometimes ghetto) women who think to much of themselves expressing their views. Exposure to different places and cultures opens up a person to different things and outlook. I really liked it. Wish you young ladies well in your future endeavors.
I disagree with that if someone is born in England and clearly part of English culture, I'd consider them English, Black or any other heritage, British is an easier term though and includes more people.
PvPGaunltett take pride in your city, many Americans do too about the cities being these desirable places to live from all over the world, it’s only british, every city in U.K. is dull in comparison to London
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