A man’s role in a relationship is something that has become a confusing concept for many men due to years of politically correct messaging from the mainstream media.
Men are told to be nice, but then when they do that, their woman doesn’t feel attracted.
Men are told to buy lots of nice things for a woman, but when they do that, their woman takes them for granted.
Men are told to not initiate sex and wait for a woman to do it, but when they use that approach, their woman feels turned off by their lack of confidence.
The list goes on and on.
A man’s role in a relationship has also something that has become a bit of a blur because many guys are unfortunately raised without a father figure, or by a father who didn’t really know the answer himself (I fell into that category growing up).
Yet, the answer to the question of, “What is a man’s role in a relationship with a woman?” is quite simple.
It’s to provide a feeling of protection.
Even though we live in a modern, civilized society, a woman still has a natural instinct to ensure that she will be protected by an emotionally strong man who can handle the challenges of life and deal with difficult people.
If a woman feels as though she is emotionally stronger than her man and he needs her emotional strength to protect him, then her attraction will shut down.
She will begin to feel more like a mother figure to him, or a big sister, which will naturally cause her to lose sexual and even romantic interest in him.
A relationship like that can often continue on for quite a while, but the sexual and romantic attraction won’t be there and both the man and the woman will feel unhappy with the relationship in their own way.
This is why, if a man wants to have a happy, successful, sexual, loving and enjoyable relationship with a woman for life, he has to be able to provide her with a feeling of protection by being an emotionally strong man.
Some men complain that this is unfair and suggest that a woman shouldn’t rely on a man to be emotionally strong and instead, she should support him emotionally or they should be equally as strong as each other.
That’s all nice in theory, but a woman feeling stronger than her man leads to a loss of respect, attraction and love and being equals leads to a neutral relationship where the man and woman end up feeling like good friends.
Once again, a relationship like that can last for quite a while, but both the man and the woman are going to be unhappy in their own way and the sexual, romantic spark won’t be there, or it will be very minimal.
This can lead to cheating from either the man or woman, or lead to a break up, separation or divorce.
The solution is to not try to fight against the nature of attraction and human instincts.
A woman has a natural instinct to want to be with a man who is emotionally stronger than her and her attraction to him is directly linked to that.
Of course, there are many women out there who are happy to be with a man who is emotionally stronger than them, but the woman will almost always withhold sex and make the man jump through endless hoops to be able to get laid in his own relationship or marriage.
Some men don’t mind getting laid once a year or decade in their relationship or marriage and that’s fine if they want to live their life that way.
Yet, if a man wants his woman to look at him with attraction in her eyes, be affectionate, initiate sex and want to be an increasingly good woman for him, then he needs to be able to satisfy her instinctive need to feel safe and protected by a man.
In the video above, I share one of the ways that a man can satisfy that instinctive need of a woman, which is to not take her tests of his confidence and emotional strength so seriously. Watch the videos for examples of what to say and do.
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Founder of TheModernMan.com and creator of Make Her Love You For Life.