http://toddvdating.com/lines to download the lines in this video in the order listed. I know the title is "steal my lines" but I hope you guys do some thinking on the structure of the document and the nature of the lines rather than just blindly repeating them. That's where the real improvement will come from.
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I've tried really hard to keep this channel about teaching you skills and attitudes that will help you in life. However, once again, my ability to do so has come under attack. I've tried to keep this brief and focus on the parts most relevant to you. Apologies in advance for even having to bring this situation up. If you want the full story, it's a matter of public record and will be continuously updated as more information comes out. https://www.courtlistener.com/docket/6194386/vandehey-v-real-social-dynamics-inc/ https://www.pacermonitor.com/public/case/22296890/VanDeHey_v_Real_Social_Dynamics,_Inc_et_al https://www.leagle.com/decision/infdco20171005i22 https://www.docketbird.com/court-cases/Vandehey-v-Real-Social-Dynamics-Inc-et-al/nvd-2:2017-cv-02230
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https://toddwinnergame.com A lot of guys are scared of approaching and frustrated by the process of getting good at game. You know what scares and frustrates me? Quitting on myself and NOT getting good. And it should scare you to. It should scare to to action... and ideally it should scare you to excellence.
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http://toddwinnergame.com The question of when to move on is one I get asked often, and it's interesting not only from a strategic perspective, but also from a psychological one. Here is my take on "moving on" for beginners and for more advanced guys. For more great inner and outer game, check out http://toddwinnergame.com
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Why do you suck at texting? Well, there are probably a lot of reasons, but one of the main ones is you don't understand the motivation behind her texts and you don't know what type of reply is merited. This video solves that, and provides a foundation for text game in general. If you want more insanely useful and actionable dating info, check out my new site: http://www.toddvdating.com/blog/
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http://systembytodd.com The great paradox of game. You need to move the interaction forward (which generally means the girl needs to know you're interested), but showing interest makes you appear needy, (which is a huge turnoff). What's the solution? I give three solutions in this video. http://systembytodd.com
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https://toddwinnergame.com I'm not a big fan of telling people what they want to hear. I like to tell people things that will actually help them. As such, here is my tough-love advice for the "hard-case newbies" out there. You might not enjoy hearing it, but I promise you, it's important. https://toddwinnergame.com
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http://systembytodd.com Showing intent is probably the biggest sticking point for 90% of guys I coach. Either then never let the girl know that it's a man to woman interaction, or they show interest in obvious ways that kill the sexual tension. Enter the new concept of "Premise"... the solution to the intent dilemma. See more in the video: http://systembytodd.com
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http://systembytodd.com The paradox of showing interest without giving your power away has long been one of the biggest questions in game. This seeming contradiction was the reason for the introduction of the term "premise" which has revolutionized game and helped thousands of guys get better results. However as people came to understand this idea, more and richer questions have developed... so let's dig deeper into what premise is exactly.
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http://systembytodd.com The early-bird discount is over, but I still want as many people to have access as possible, so it's available at a reduced price for a very limited period of time: http://systembytodd.com This video is about LEARNING game, which is one of the most critical parts of getting success, and something that is rarely addressed. These exercises and many more are included in The System: http://systembytodd.com
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We're back with the second video in the opening series, and one of my favorite and most common types of openers. Observational/situational openers are a great example of having canned formats without canned lines, which combines a lot of the effectiveness of both canned and uncanned ("natural") styles of game. And situational teases are an invaluable part of game in general, not just opening!
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http://www.toddvdating.com This is one of the absolute best openers and probably my personal favorite, when it's possible to use it. It just puts you in such a good position in the interaction immediately! Check it out and be sure to check out the other videos in the opening series as well: https://youtu.be/050mAG7O4LY?list=PL76nuCstxs7jpcbJ3B5Cbrs7-4gTwjBWF Finally, if you haven't yet, check out my brand new blog at http://www.toddvdating.com
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One of my assistants filmed a debrief during the Miami Immersion program a couple of months ago, and I thought the content was very worth sharing. I talk about frame control and integrity in a way that I really haven't before. For more of my insights, head over to https://www.toddvdating.com
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http://systembytodd.com Nice guys don't finish last, because they're nice; They finish last because they are exhibiting low value traits. If a guy is ALWAYS nice, it can come off as a coping mechanism, or a manipulative tactic. Girls don't want assholes either, though. What girls do want is a 'high value' guy with good intentions. That is, a guy who could get away with being an asshole, but chooses not to. Hope this video opens some eyes. http://systembytodd.com
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http://toddwinnergame.com People keep asking me for texting videos... and those are coming, but in order to text effectively, you need to get solid numbers in the first place. So consider this STEP ZERO in text game.
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http://systembytodd.com I see so many pulls ruined by stupid decisions... program after program, student after student. So I had to make this video for my own sanity. Please, please don't make these mistakes! When you have a girl who likes you and wants to go home with you... please don't fumble on the one yard line!
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https://toddwinnergame.com Almost every student I see has game that falls into the category of "way too hard" or "way too soft". Almost nobody has balance, and that's a big reason why almost nobody gets results.
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This should really go under the heading of "truth about pickup", but in this case, I don't think there's anything manipulative going on... I just think most people teaching pickup have no idea what they're doing. In any case this is one of the biggest student sticking points I see OVER AND OVER AND OVER. For more, be sure to check out My New Blog: http://www.toddvdating.com/ and my Free Course: https://toddwinnergame.com/
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https://www.toddvdating.com I spend a lot of time on this channel teaching how to meet girls, but I don't spend nearly as much time addressing how to have the types of relationships you want with them. What makes the difference between a girlfriend and a girl you just hook up with? What dictates the rules of the relationship? That's what this video is all about.
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I thought it might be a good idea to add some field reports to the channel because a lot of guys learn well from them. However, rather than start with something impressive and earth-shattering, I thought I'd start with one many of you can probably relate to. For a look at where my game has progressed since this embarrassing date, check out the infield video at: https://toddwinnergame.com
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I've been noticing two types of thinking, in the comments on videos and the questions guys ask me, that are absolutely terrible for learning game. The tendency toward adopting black and white (binary) models of the world, and a phenomenon I call "leveling" create a lot of situations where people's own experience steers them wrong. Obviously until such things are corrected, learning game can be extremely difficult. The video I'm referencing comments for, btw, is this one: https://youtu.be/UQGBDNdlU3I
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https://toddwinnergame.com There's a myth in game that "canned game", meaning repeating things you've said before, is somehow bad game or manipulative or disingenuous. Well, that's only if you're doing BAD canned game. Let me tell you a little bit about the RIGHT way to use lines you've used before.
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https://systembytodd.com A lot of guys get girls giggling, a lot of guys get big reactions. Some guys get attraction based on excitement or "buying temperature" or emotional spikes. But that sort of attraction fades quickly. If you want things to last, you need a story behind the attraction. You need narrative. For more, check out: https://systembytodd.com
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http://www.systembytodd.com Many times, the advice I'd give to a beginner is the exact opposite of what I'd tell an advanced guy. And then there might even be a third different option for an intermediate guy! This paradox can make learning game difficult and confusing, but it really shouldn't and doesn't have to. Beginners, intermediates and advanced students should be doing different things ON THE SURFACE, but on a deeper level, there are fundamental principles of game that apply at all levels, and when you understand these principles, the apparent paradoxes go away. http://www.systembytodd.com
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http://systembytodd.com There is a lot to be said about desire, mentality, attitude... but without the requisite skills, all of these things are often useless. Preparation and intelligence will be the defining factors in long-term success. In this video, I discuss these concepts from the home of one of the most successful sporting franchises on the planet, FC Barcelona. http://systembytodd.com
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http://systembytodd.com There has been a lot of talk about how to get a girlfriend lately... and a lot of it has been either flat out wrong, or highly cynical and nihilistic. Getting a girlfriend isn't primarily about gimmicks, it's about bringing value to the interaction and the relationship. Loving women rather than hating them also helps ;)... Beyond that, techniques and frames do help, so all of those pieces are included in this vid. http://systembytodd.com
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https://www.toddvdating.com I'm a big believer in the idea that game should be effective, rather than just look good. Big flashy moves get big flashy reactions, but they also call attention to the fact game is going on, and they feel unnatural to the girl and her friends. Learn why low-energy game is more effective, and how to implement it.
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How to get your ex girlfriend back... I get asked this question sooo much, so I finally caved in and answered it. Even though I think even trying to get your ex back is generally an awful Idea. More on that, as well as on how to do it if you're determined to, in this vid. http://systembytodd.com
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http://systembytodd.com Any time you compare women and men, it's likely to be controversial... but it's a FACT that men and women are different. That's why there are two different words ;). The physical differences are obvious, but there are also psychological ones. And if you're expecting women to act based on male nature and psychology, rather than understanding the unique outlook of females, you're often going to be disappointed and confused. http://systembytodd.com
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I hate self help! That's right. You read it correctly. The phrase "self help" makes me cringe... not because it's a bad idea in theory, but because of what it typically means in the real world. The BS that gets peddled, the victim mentality it tends to created, the excuses and magic pills... such a shame. Because self-improvement and skill development are two of the greatest things you can do... and that's what "self help" SHOULD be about. Check out https://toddwinnergame.com for Inner Game help that isn't for losers... and is completely free!
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Being a kid is fun, an nice and relaxing... but on a fundamental level it's not ENOUGH to get you success. There is a certain mentality of adult responsibility that you need to embrace if you want to achieve big things. It's not fun, but it's necessary. My New Blog: http://www.toddvdating.com/ and my Free Course: https://toddwinnergame.com/
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https://toddwinnergame.com Having good game is the first step in crazy success with women and dating, but it's not the whole story. There are tons of strategic decisions that can magnify your success. One of the biggest of these is venue selection. Where do you choose to meet girls. Picking the right bar or club... or daygame location... or social circle scenario FOR YOU is huge. Find out how to optimize your game in this video.
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https://systembytodd.com So excited for the release of this. The biggest mistake I see over and over in game is lacking a system. Aimless sets that go nowhere, constant social errors, years with no progress... should be a thing of the past. You should be getting CONSISTENT results and improving each and every time you go out. I want to show you how. https://systembytodd.com
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https://www.toddvdating.com When I did the breakdown of Hitch here: https://youtu.be/dlFnNcWu6c0 a ton of people requested I break down some other movies, and by far the most popular was Crazy Stupid Love; so here it is! One of my all-time favorite movie pickup scenes. So how legitimate and accurate to real life is it? And does Ryan Gosling have game? Also check out http://systembytodd.com for the most in-depth technical understanding of game you'll find anywhere
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https://toddwinnergame.com This is a new series for my channel. I'll be periodically taking questions and giving my candid answers to them. I'll try to pick questions I have a unique answer to, and I'll try to pick questions from the comments of a previous "ask Todd" video... so be sure to let me know your questions below. Oh, and do check out https://toddwinnergame.com ... it's both amazing and free!
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https://systembytodd.com 24 Hours Left To Get THE SYSTEM At The Discounted Price! The words you use make an enormous difference in your results. Some words are dealbreakers, and some words are just non-sexual. Lean the words that make your interactions man-to-woman and set the frame in your favor without giving away your power or being try-hard. This one one of the subtle secrets of advanced verbal game. https://systembytodd.com for more.
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http://systembytodd.com Inner Game vs Outer Game. The age old debate... which is more important and where should you focus? Whenever there is a paradox, a good place to start is re-examining your assumptions. In this case, the question you should consider is IS THERE EVEN A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO? In a lot of ways, and most of the practical ways, the answer is no! I go into a lot more depth in the video, but in both cases, game comes down to one thing... ACTION. Whether you're dealing with inner game or outer game, what you're really dealing with is right actions. This unifying principle is the key to the entire debate. http://systembytodd.com for more
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http://systembytodd.com What should you talk about if you want an interaction with a girl to actually go somewhere. There are some topics that are platonic by their nature, and some that inevitably lead do more intimate or sexual conversations. This is one of the best, and most subtle ways to escalate things. Learn which topics these are in this video. http://systembytodd.com
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http://systembytodd.com How to run your night. Where to start, who to talk to, how to manage your emotions all the things that go on in between interactions that make a huge difference within interactions. Here are some expert strategies for insuring you have a great night (or day) every time. http://systembytodd.com
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Wanted to give you behind the scenes look at me and my crew and what we do. You've met JP in Winner Game and on my channel, but he's just one of my coaches who travels with me on our various adventures around the world. Lots of great "nuggets of gold" in this video about getting real success and how to learn game as well. Enjoy! and for more great insights, check out http://www.toddvdating.com
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https://toddwinnergame.com I'm a huge fan of people and teams who win in sports, as I believe athletic competitions are a great metaphor for life. Tom Brady, Bill Belichick and the New England Patriots have been such an organization over the past decade and win or lose today, they're an example worth learning from. As much for the fact that they'll accept no excuses whatsoever regarding their performance today as the hard work and dedication they've put in beforehand. They've truly "decided to win".
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http://systembytodd.com People have a lot of misconceptions about "technical game", but one of the biggest ones is the idea that it 'puts you in your head' or that learning technical skills hurts your native ability to game. I wanted to put those to rest, as well as answer a couple of the most common technical game questions I've gotten since the release of The System: http://systembytodd.com
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https://systembytodd.com Thank you so much for your patience! After a year of hard work... and a few weeks of delays to get everything just right... we're finally ready to go live! I'm very excited to be able to make this available to you. There's also a very special offer to celebrate the launch... it's pretty insane! Check it out at: https://systembytodd.com
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https://toddwinnergame.com There's a lot of talk in the pickup community about "breaking free of social conditioning"... but is that really what you want? A lot of social conditioning is actually GOOD. It's how we adapt to live in the world with people. So rather than blindly rejecting social conditioning, let's think things through and get rid of ONLY the social conditioning that's harmful.
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https://systembytodd.com/preview Girls reject guys for a lot of very obvious and very fixable reasons, so I've explored a couple of the most common ones here, along with student infield examples. This rejection footage is taken from The System and there's a lot more where that came from. https://systembytodd.com/preview
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http://systembytodd.com When you talk to a girl. She's sizing you up. Are you confident or timid? Do you have friends and good social reception? Do you know what you're doing with girls? Are you successful? Are you "cool"? Some of these things she figures out over time, but many of them she knows almost INSTANTLY based on specific behaviors that are "honest signals" of your value as a man. If you get these behaviors wrong, you're not going to get girls above a certain calibre... if you get them right... let's just say, you really want to get them right... http://systembytodd.com
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https://www.toddvdating.com I'm often compared to "Hitch" when people find out what I do for a living, so I thought I'd take this opportunity to do an "infield breakdown" of the pickup scenes in Hitch, and compare Hollywood's version to what works in the real world.
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http://systembytodd.com There is so much material out there, and yet so many people frustrated and not improving. How is that possible?! Well part of it is people are being taught the wrong things. A lot of game that looks good and gets clicks on the internet, just isn't particularly effective in real life. Find out why, in this video... and be sure to check out: http://systembytodd.com
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https://toddwinnergame.com I'm shocked that everyone hasn't checked out wINNER GAME yet. It's FREE... and it's also a pretty epic course. Get on it already... this is just one of four infields in that program and there are so many other epiphanies awaiting you inside! http://toddwinnergame.com
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How to flirt. One of the most important but misunderstood topics in game. This video teaches 3 easy techniques, but also the attitude and philosophy of flirting, as teasing and flirting are an easy way to turn a platonic set into something more intimate. The three flirting techniques are "push-pull", "exaggeration", and "disqualification". While a lot of people know what these words mean, far fewer are able to flirt with fluency. I show you here with exercises and infield video.
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